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'BE POSITIVE' IS A WRONG THING

Hello friends! And all the best. The title of my post may sound a little strange to you, and how could it not? Till date, we have been listening to this "Be Positive" and I have written the title of my post "Be Positive is a Wrong Thing". Let me try to explain to you what I am trying to say. This will be a new thing for you, so you may find me very strange. Let's leave now I start my talk. It doesn't matter what you think.

Today's environment is insanely insistent on Positive Expectations far away from reality in the name of 'Positive-Positive' be happier, be healthier, be the best, be better than others. Be so smart, fast, rich, popular that the world appreciates you. Be perfect and amazing, imagine a golden day every morning before breakfast, and sit in your super car and reach your super luxurious office, where you will be doing amazing work.

Positive Thing is a Nonsense Thing
But have you ever thought carefully that all this advice - the same things about being happy and positive, which we have often heard from all the time - are about the same things that we lack. Its focus is on what are your personal shortcomings or failures, and then insist on removing them. You learn the best way to earn money because you feel that you are short of money. You follow the advice of dating and improving relationships because you feel that no one loves you. To be more successful, you start doing strange visualization exercises because you feel that you are not as successful yet. It simply reminds us again and again what we are not, what we lack, and what we should have. The more you insist on becoming the better, the more dissatisfied you are, The desire for something like this proves in itself that you do not have that thing. The more love and happiness you wish for in life, the more loneliness and fear in your home, even if you are sitting in a full house. A confident man does not need to prove that he has faith in himself. There is no need for a rich man to display his money in front of others, either you are rich or not. If you dream of being something else all the time, then you are insisting on the same feeling which you are not. With this, you start connecting more with the fake world, and spend your whole life chasing the desire for happiness and satisfaction. You can never be happy by constantly looking for happiness, similarly you will never be able to live life while searching for the meaning of life. 

Perhaps now you have understood the meaning of what I said, what I am trying to explain to you. Do not be someone else, there is no harm in what you are, whether you are rich or not, there are all kinds of people in this world and no matter whether they are average or not, excellent or not. No, you are the way you are and this is good and there is happiness in living your life.

Thanking You...

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