Hello friends! The title of this post may be that you may be feeling awkward, but this post is very important.
I just read this book in a hurry and I felt that the important things about this book should be shared with you, this book tells about some regrets of our life. About whom we need to know. Let me start now.
This book presents the Hindi summary of his own book "Top 5 Regrets of the Dying" (The 5 Greatest Regrets of the Last Time) written on the life experiences of an Australian nurse "Bronnie Ware". For many years, Bronnie Ware worked in the part of the hospital where patients are kept, whose chances of survival are 12 weeks less than 3 months. Bronnie Ware began writing about the last-minute experiences of dying patients in one of his blogs and found that last-minute people often abandon their bodies with a variety of regrets. Bronnie Ware has written in a very beautiful way those people deeply understand the important aspects and purpose of life at the end of time and then regret their being unaware of all of their ages.
If we understand these aspects today, then we can learn to live our life in the right way. Let us know what are the 5 regrets that a person has while dying.
1) I WISH I HAD SO MUCH COURAGE THAT I COULD LIVE THE LIFE I WANTED TO LEAVE, NOT THE LIFE THAT OTHER PEOPLE EXPECTED OF ME
This is the biggest regret of the people. When people are in their end time, they are able to know that according to others, there were so many tasks or dreams which they could not complete. And then they feel that they had enough time, health and resources to fulfill their dreams but could not achieve all these dues to choosing some wrong and unwanted options. People regret why they kept thinking "what people would think" before doing any work or decision throughout life.
2) I WISH I HAD GIVEN MORE TIME TO MY CHILDREN AND FAMILY AND WOULD NOT HAVE WORKED SO HARD
Bronnie Ware writes that everyone has said that they worked very hard to keep up with the running world and were very busy with their work. Meanwhile, he could not give his children a good time in their childhood.
3) I WISH I HAD THE COURAGE TO TELL MY HEART
Many people suppress their heart's talk or feeling so that they can see everyone happy. So, they only live a life full of compromises. And then when they arrive for the last time, they are dissatisfied with themselves and filled with resentment and also become victims of related diseases. I wish I was so confident that I would make my own life decisions and not live my life according to the decisions of others.
4) I WISH I COULD BE FRIENDS WITH MY CHILDHOOD YOUTH
Often people are not able to realize the importance of old friends until they reach their last days. And then it is also difficult to find them at the last minute. Many people get entangled in their lives and then go very far due to not giving time and importance to their old relationships. Everyone misses their friends very much in their last days.
5) BEING HAPPY IS A CHOICE. I WISH I KNEW IT BEFORE
Surprisingly, it is also an important regret of the last time of all people. Many people do not understand until the last moment that "happiness" or being happy is a "choice". This means that being happy is a choice that is not related to anything external. People always have the option to be happy, but people have the habit of slavery of their own mindset. People are very sorry for thinking that they could not be happy in their lives and the reason for this was only themselves. Do not know why people live in the shadow of different kinds of fear and do not know why the future is secure, he spends his days and nights and then at the last moment realizes that the happiness of the future for which he used to run, the future is no longer there. People felt at the last minute that it was in their own hands to be happy in every situation because neither life was ever going to be nor circumstances.
Friends, these 5 regrets make us learn that life only means that you recognize the voice of your soul and express yourself fully. Life itself means a journey where you discover yourself and then express yourself in this world in a complete way.
Then why not just today, you also peep inside yourself and see if there is any kind of remorse inside you. If it is, solve it immediately and live the life in such a way that there is no more regret.
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